Everything does NOT need to be discussed!

Ladies, I know it eats us up when we see and know things that pertain to the man we are interested in OR in a relationship with. When we get this information it damn near burns a hole in our esophagus and larynx to keep it in, doesn't it? Let me share something with y'all real quick, something I learned from experience, if you disclose this information and you are not prepared to do anything about it DON'T SAY A FREAKIN' WORD!

If said information has made you reevaluate your choice in this man, have a game plan when you approach him. For example, you find out he is dealing with another woman, you have concrete proof that this is so ... when you approach him, he says it's a lie. Now what? Or he says she is just a friend, there is nothing to it BUT AGAIN you have CONCRETE PROOF that he is actually dealing with her on a more than friendship level ... now what? If you think he'll come clean about it and leave her alone OR you plan to leave him, address it BUT if you have no plan except to be in this triangle after you know he won't admit to it then again I say

Why? Because you know he's dealing with her and when you approach him he lies about it soooooooooooooo what's the point of you staying or saying anything? At this point you are aiding and abetting the activity and can't be mad at anyone but yourself when you get that BIG HURT because it'll definitely come!

If you can remain friends with said mate/dude then back away and keep that friendship. If he means that much to you, if not

Free yourself from the bullshit if there is no need to keep him around otherwise just show him how strong your fallback game can be! Smile and continue on in wellness. He will see what he missed before you will but by then it'll be too late more than likely SO remember my sisters, NOT EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE DISCLOSED OR DISCUSSED!! IF YOU HAVE A GAME PLAN DO DAT THANG OTHERWISE