CHEAT IN PEACE!

I have a serious question and I hope y'all can provide a sista with an answer or two. DISCLAIMER: I do not subscribe to these types of actions. They are both comical and pathetic in my opinion but something I have pondered over for years nonetheless!

So you think your mate is being unfaithful, right? Ok, BOOM, so check it ... you've put an elaborate plan together to catch your mate in the act. You may use a fake social media page, hack into their current social media accounts, go through their phone or maybe even follow them to a said location. You know, back in the day you really had to be an inch high private eye and put in some foot work BUT NOT in today's world of technological advancements. You now have the advantage of social media which means you can get the dirt while at work or laying in your bed. Who knows but times have changed so finding the dirt is a lot easier and puts a lot of foot patrolling to rest. Watching these stories unfold on social media or listening to them in person is extremely comical. Soooooo ...

After ALL of that playing detective WHAT HAPPENS NOW?!?! I cram to overstand the point of it all. You bash this person all over social media, to your family and friends but STILL stay with them after you find EVERYTHING YOU ARE LOOKING FOR and I mean EVERYTHING. So what was the point? There was no plan in place for the "if I am right" scenario and you indeed were right. I see these situations more times than not. If you are not going to leave them what is the point in attempting to catch them cheating?

OR HER!! When they realize they've gotten away with it and you stayed, what would stop them from doing it again? This makes you look naive and gullible not only to your mate but the side piece and EVERYONE you've shared this with as well. That side piece is still, in most cases, messing with your mate and if not them, a new side piece. So again, what's the point?

I was just wondering and figured I would put it out there. I saw this situation on social media earlier and felt like taking it to the masses to see what say you all! Thanks in advance for the possible clarity (if that exists) you will provide. It's appreciated.

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