Is it wrong? What say you?

I have a scenario that I want to toss out to you all and get some feedback. This will not be a long blog and this is a no judgement zone here so by all means, PLEASE comment your thoughts on this matter, OK?

You have been dating someone for a few months and you realize it isn't working so you bow out as gracefully and peacefully as possible. In those few months, the physical aspect of the relationship has become quite the game changer in this failing relationship. So game changing, in fact, that you almost stayed in it so that you could continue getting that good loving. You know in your heart and soul that this relationship is not conducive to your well being so you exit stage left before anything can get any deeper.

It's over know and you have begun realizing you no longer have any access to this now ex-mate, meaning you will miss the act of love making of which you had become accustomed. It had become an almost daily part of life and since you go months to years in-between relationships this NEW thing is giving you NEW life! This is where the dilemma comes in.

In an act of good will, or at least what you think is good will, you offer continued relations until one of you finds another mate. Whoever begins dating first must cut off the sexual relationship so that the new one can be focused on without interruption or interference. Is making such a sexual request wrong? Inappropriate? Do any of you see an issue with this? Do you think there would be a difference if it's the male or the woman putting this offer on the table? Let me be honest and clear, since the relationship was only a few months, I would have NO PROBLEM with it whatsoever.

I see it as a win-win situation but I have heard that this is

NOW I ASK ...

4 comments:

  1. Not wrong or inappropriate but... I can see this proposition delaying any incentive to find that next thing and cut off the sex. Not to mention the continued intimacy tends to cloud and create other issues or misunderstanding.

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    1. Agreed Bruh Bruh to a degree. Only if you aren't interested in moving on will there be that type of issue, that's my thought anyways.

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  2. SEX: Sacred Enegry Exchange. This isn't wrong if you have convinced yourself of it. However what come from with and frim sex is powerful in ways beyond sight. Be wise of whom you allow to enter your sacred portal. It's another opening to your soul. He will never walk away because there's no need to chase or woo since it's all about the physical. Sincerely, He who has arrived

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  3. You WILL cheat on your new partner with your ex, GUARANTEED!

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